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Etiquette
If
you have any specific etiquette questions about an entry
on your guest list, I am happy to discuss the various
options with clients. Though proper etiquette is a gracious
standard format, I also assure brides that recognizing
specific personal relationships is equally important.
If you know that your grandmother will feel hurt if you
address her inner envelope with Mrs. Thomas Nooner when
you've called her Nana Noony since your were two years
old, then by all means you can feel comfortable addressing
her as she would prefer. The purpose of etiquette is to
acknowledge and respect the personal and social relationships
of all involved.
Submitting
Your Guest List for Calligraphy
Clients
can provide an electronic copy of their list in Word or
other text document, spreadsheet format on disk or by
email, or a typed paper copy by postal mail. My
personal preference is for digital formats on disk or
by email, but please use the option that works best for
you.
Clients
provide guest lists with entries written as they would
like them to read. However, commonly accepted postal and
state abbreviations are fine. I will write these out in
full as I letter our project.
For
example, you may write 123 W. Main St. on your list,
but I will write it out as 123 West Main Street on the
envelope as I do the lettering.
Here
are some examples of clear formats for guest list entries.
The guest's postal address is in a standard mailing format,
followed by the inner envelope line in parentheses. Please
include at least one line space between entries to keep
them fully separated.
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Mr.
and Mrs. John Guest
123 W. Main St.
Columbia, MO 65201
(Mr. and Mrs. Guest)
Mr.
and Mrs. Thomas Invited
456 Crossing Blvd.
Columbia, MO 65201
(Mr. and Mrs. Invited, Tommy, Kelly and Susy)
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Here
is a spreadsheet example
It
is important that your guest list be complete
before you submit it for calligraphy. Submitting a
list in sections or submitting several addresses one-by-one
increases the opportunity for error and confusion
for both of us. Of course, the occasional late addition
or change to a guest list is inevitable. Late additions
or changes will be accepted and finely lettered. Additions
and changes that arrive in time will be integrated
into the project and shipped along with the rest of
the sets upon completion. However, there will be a
late-rate assessed to cover the additional tracking
and lettering. If an addition or change comes through
too late to be included in the finished shipment of
calligraphy, it will be billed at the late-rate and
assessed an additional fee to cover the separate shipping
and handling necessary to return it to you completed.
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are a number of wonderful etiquette resources that address
the issues involved in crafting an appropriately worded
invitation and envelope. My personal favorite is Crane's
Wedding Blue Book. If you have general questions about
basic forms of address for your guest list, here is
a handy link to Crane's
Online Reference. |
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is important that your guest list be complete
before you submit it for calligraphy. |
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